The Realest author you will ever meet.
About Me
Be Real, Be Relentless and Ryze Above
Hey Family,
I wanted to make sure that the about me is truly about me. I hope with the self disclosure of this section you get a better perspective of what I am trying to create. Since I wrote a book and I give you a lot of my life in it, I wanted to make sure I gave you a little different perspective than what is in my book so I don't ruin a good read for you. I have never lived my life on easy mode, in fact, a peer of mine expressed that I live my life on expert mode. I chuckled as he revealed a portion of my truth. I am a firm believer of living life with path of least resistance but when it comes to marching to my own beat of my altrisums beat, I cannot help myself but to seek that path less traveled. Ive always thought myself as an equalizer of the ratio of positive combating the negative. Before I could write my book I needed to go through my metamorphosis.
In the first level, I needed to be real with my self. That meant, I needed to look in the metaphorical mirror have an introspective conversation and ask myself the hard questions. This was not an easy feat, this also is not a one time thing. It's an everyday practice. After acknowledging, my traumas, my family traumas etc, I needed to be relentless about changing my thought patterns and maladaptive growth. What were they you ask, Anger, followed by angry outburst, mixed with native and an over reliance of attention of relationships with the opposite sex. Lastly, I needed to Ryze above my humanity. How does one do that? My process, shed my humanity in order to become more human. I started this process with a thought provoking question, when you are in your car caught in traffic, do you consider yourself in traffic or apart of traffic? Save your answer for an IG DM or in a meeting at one of the events I attend.
After my metamorphosis, I was then able to begin my book. The conception of my book was a culmination of my human experience and the pinnacle of education at a brief moment in time. With these two on a collision course I felt compelled to tell you my story while also identifying techniques and ideologies that allowed me to overcome some of the hardships I fought through. My mother a substance abuser, was the main perpetrator in my abuse. Due to circumstances my biological father was not around. These were just the start of my origin story, so you can only imagine why my peer said I played life on expert mode.
Anyway I am glad that you visited my page and I hope that I can be of service to you. Yours truly, the coolest author you will know, peace be upon you!
There are a set of values I live by and have been living by them from an early age, because I want your experience on my website to be about you I'll share only a few. I hope you enjoy and hope to hear from you soon.
Kaizen
Rooted in the principle of Kaizen, which means “continuous improvement,” I’ve made a lifelong vow to become better every single day. Embracing this mindset has transformed the way I see the world opening me up to meaningful lessons across every spectrum of my life, both personally and professionally.
My journey of growth is reflected in the diverse certifications I’ve earned over the years, including Personal Training, Nutrition, TRX Suspension Training, Cupping Therapy, and most recently, Yin Yoga and Life Purpose Coaching. Each credential represents not just a skillset, but a deeper commitment to holistic wellness and service to others.
This path of lifelong learning isn’t just about accumulating knowledge, it’s about evolving, expanding, and staying aligned with my mission to empower others to Ryze Above and live fully.
Live, Love & Laugh
Living, loving, and laughing is more than just a catchy phrase, it’s a powerful philosophy that I live by. Embrace life with fullness, presence, and joy. Living means being fully engaged in the present moment. It’s about taking ownership of your journey, pursuing purpose, and experiencing life deeply, through its ups, downs, lessons, and blessings. It’s choosing growth over comfort and intention over routine.
Loving reflects our capacity to form deep, meaningful connections with others and with ourselves. It means expressing compassion, vulnerability, and empathy, while also setting healthy boundaries. True love fosters healing, belonging, and the courage to be seen.
Laughing is the medicine that keeps the soul light. It’s about finding joy in the everyday, not taking life too seriously, and allowing space for play, humor, and resilience even in hard times. Laughter nurtures the spirit and brings people together.
Together, living, loving, and laughing form a holistic approach to well-being a reminder to stay grounded, connected, and joyful as we navigate